It's your choice whether you tell him or not. I did tell mine and I think it killed our affair....I wish I never had looking back on it now. (Although your AP seems to care about you much more than mine ever did....that's great!) Ours was just a PA too. If you NEVER tell him, you'll never know if he feels the same. Is that a risk you want to take? Only you can answer that.....
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It's your choice whether you tell him or not. I did tell mine and I think it killed our affair....I wish I never had looking back on it now. (Although your AP seems to care about you much more than mine ever did....that's great!) Ours was just a PA too. If you NEVER tell him, you'll never know if he feels the same. Is that a risk you want to take? Only you can answer that.....