Reflections of a former affair addict

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2007
Reflections of a former affair addict
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Sun, 11-15-2009 - 1:07am

This is a little long but I wanted to tell my story.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 12:29pm

I really admire u for writing this post, it is an amazing reality check. sadly sometimes we have to learn our lessons the hard way :(((

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2007
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 9:16pm

When I started typing the words just kept coming.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 10:47pm

Thank you for writing this. It really makes one ponder. I know it took alot for you to post this but I'm glad you did. I'm really sorry about your EAP. I dont think it was your fault though. Everyone makes their own choices, we have free will. It seems like you did what you did b/c you

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Sun, 11-15-2009 - 11:45pm

well keep at it, it is part of your healing process. I am so happy for you, i m happy for every one who find peace in his or her life.
hugs

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2009
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 1:55pm
WOW...thank you so much for posting your story. I really admire you for doing it. It gave me alot to think about.....
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2003
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 6:11pm
She's speaking her truth and I believe her when she says she was "addicted". Affairs ARE addictive. The high, the chase, the "getting" but the way down is pure torture. Pain like you've never felt in your entire life.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-28-2007
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 10:13pm

Truer words have never been spoken.