Giving up on everything

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Giving up on everything
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Mon, 11-16-2009 - 2:34pm

I posted a few days ago about being in a dark place and I received tremendous support from everyone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 7:07pm

Jap,


Try to hang in there. It's not punishment. Things in this country are hard for so many people including myself. I've got financial issues too and they have been going on for years. When I wasnt in an A I was having problems, so please dont think that way.


I wouldnt ask AP for help. Your H really needs to do something. It's his problem too and from what I recall from your last post this is his fault. I know its hard as I'm going through alot too as far as finances and some other things. We will make it. You are not alone in this. Hang in there b/c this will not last forever.


Post whenever you feel stressed and need to vent.


Hugs

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2009
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 9:46pm

I totally agree with caribu. I recall your previous posts and think your H needs to get off his a$$ and get you both out of the mess he created. You are the only one pulling the weight. If you were to ask AP for money, you know that is the major sticking point in most R's. He may feel like youre also trying to get into his wallet and you may lose him. As AP is the only good thing you think you have at the moment you dont want that.

Maybe if he asks you how you are one time, tell him youre a little stressed and give him an insight that you arent doing so well financially. If he offers to help, then discuss it, but if he waves it away then let it go and know he doesnt want to involve himself in your finances.

I hope things get better for you soon.

SB.

Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 11-02-2009
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 9:35am

Good morning everyone.