Still here & still need all your advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2009
Still here & still need all your advice
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Tue, 12-01-2009 - 10:11am

Well nothing in the situation has changed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2009
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 11:37am

Hi!


If you are more interested in the Physical side of the relationship with this man, then drop him, move on, find a new man.


I am in A - I am WM and my A is in a relationship, but not married. Our situation is a little weird, its somewhere between EA and PA. He travels nearly half the year, so I see him maybe once month, and then he's gone again. Most of the time I am just his "friend" - we chat nearly every day

Every recovery is a kind of rebirth
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2009
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 1:12pm

Yes, want and need the physical, but we had both for a year and a half.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2009
Tue, 12-01-2009 - 2:09pm
I've come to the conflusion that men are confusing as heck! I don't even know if they know what they want half the time LOL. I think tho that its time for you to move on. I told myself when it gets to the point where you are upset, mad or completely confused...just not worth it anymore. Some people might only have a physical relationship with their AP but feelings still can get hurt.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2009
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 9:42am

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2009
Wed, 12-02-2009 - 11:19am
If he is gonna talk to you on the phone for 2 hours then he might as well came to see you quick. I block his butt too..just give him a taste of his own medicine. I like the out of sight out of mind line...Im gonna start saying that to myself over and over. This A stuff can make a person angry and crazy! lol