Attraction is a strang thing

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Registered: 11-26-2009
Attraction is a strang thing
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Thu, 12-03-2009 - 5:30am

My H is one of the best looking guys I have ever met - It was love at first sight, I saw unborn children in his cool blue eyes - I still love him so much to this very day! (god only knows why I started an A - I think deep down I'm a bad person)


What I don't get is why have I gotten myself involved with someone I don't actually find attractive? We are so far from eachother in the looks department, and its not even because he treats me that great!)


Are there others that wonder why

Every recovery is a kind of rebirth
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Registered: 10-10-2009
Thu, 12-03-2009 - 8:11am
AP is 100% opposit then my H. Not just in looks but everything. My H is an attractive man but its his view on life and constant negativity that kills the attraction. AP is gorgeous...Id go into details but don't like putting that info out here on the board. I think sometimes it not always about looks..its about the emotional attraction that works for people.
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Registered: 11-26-2009
Thu, 12-03-2009 - 8:26am

your right - my AP and H are so different in all possible ways. My AP makes me laugh, is intellegent, great job and a personality to die for.


I guess I'm a bad person, but not shallow!!

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Registered: 11-10-2009
Fri, 12-04-2009 - 2:16pm

Both my H and AP are decent looking guys.