Hi Commit. I dont have any advice i would think to be helpful but wanted to just say i am sorry for all you have been through.
You will get through all this because you HAVE to. You have 4 gorgeous boys that will help you. They may not understand what or why the family is in turmoil, but they will still love you.
Your AP sounds like a very good man to immediately want to be with you and help you raise the baby. You cannot fault a man that is willing to stand by his children. That is what most of the posters here have the problem with- their AP stays for the kids mainly. You didnt say if AP has any DCs at home but to show you his devotion to you and the new addition, he is willing to leave his M to be with you and i am sure that also means to help support you.
Take your vitamins and take care of yourself so baby can grow to be healthy. I really wish you the best of luck here and hope you keep up updated.
You will always get trolls so hit the ignore post button, Commit. Even though this situ is messy, its too late to turn back so do the best you can now to go into damage control. I understand you wouldnt leave the DCs you already have. Ignore idiots as there will always be someone that wont approve of choices or understand that we all make mistakes (There obviously are a lot of perfect people walking around)
Keep focusing on the path ahead and take it one step at a time. There are people here that will listen and support you. You arent the only one to be in an unhappy M - just read here and see!
i dont normally post on here but i saw your story about a week ago. its very similar to mine but dont have the guts yet to post mine. /i feel bad enough just looking at this board./ we haven't heard from you in over a week and the original post has been deleted. is everything ok (with ap, baby, dh)?
Hi Commit. I dont have any advice i would think to be helpful but wanted to just say i am sorry for all you have been through.
You will get through all this because you HAVE to. You have 4 gorgeous boys that will help you. They may not understand what or why the family is in turmoil, but they will still love you.
Your AP sounds like a very good man to immediately want to be with you and help you raise the baby. You cannot fault a man that is willing to stand by his children. That is what most of the posters here have the problem with- their AP stays for the kids mainly. You didnt say if AP has any DCs at home but to show you his devotion to you and the new addition, he is willing to leave his M to be with you and i am sure that also means to help support you.
Take your vitamins and take care of yourself so baby can grow to be healthy. I really wish you the best of luck here and hope you keep up updated.
You will always get trolls so hit the ignore post button, Commit.
Even though this situ is messy, its too late to turn back so do the best you can now to go into damage control. I understand you wouldnt leave the DCs you already have. Ignore idiots as there will always be someone that wont approve of choices or understand that we all make mistakes (There obviously are a lot of perfect people walking around)
Keep focusing on the path ahead and take it one step at a time. There are people here that will listen and support you. You arent the only one to be in an unhappy M - just read here and see!
(((hugs)))
SB
Hi commit,
i dont normally post on here but i saw your story about a week ago. its very similar to mine but dont have the guts yet to post mine. /i feel bad enough just looking at this board./ we haven't heard from you in over a week and the original post has been deleted. is everything ok (with ap, baby, dh)?