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Calling all men
| Fri, 12-11-2009 - 4:11pm |
Calling all men! Please..I am sure a lot of us would love to have the perspective of a S man with a MW. Please help us out. It will be VERY much appreciated! Thanks.

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i would love to hear their views from all angles. from a single man with a MW to a MM with a single woman as well as a MM with a MW. in fact even single men who are looking for someone. this last one all the same would be for the singles board. i thought about the above this morning. i am not sure if many men come to this site. just like how many men do not go to gloryb.com. i think a good number of them are over by askmen.com. that passed through my mind this morning. i am an ex- single ow so i would really love to hear what mm with single ow have to say.
come on guys. don't be shy.
I'm a SM who was having an affair with a MW. I gave some of my details on the post "Those that cheat, cheat on you". I will be happy to give you my perspectives as honestly as possible; maybe even things you might not want to
hey,
Single guy here.
Edited 12/14/2009 2:34 pm ET by nonchalant345
Im a MM with a MW A for 3.5 years. Horrible ups and downs, never a moment of peace. Breakups on a monthly basis. I have a great DW and 2 kids. But I fell in love with AP, I like her so much as a person, and the chemistry I feel for her is like nothing before. Even after 3.5 years. She has always wanted to be man and wife. I have always said we would not do well in the real world. Which is 100% accurate. I constantly tell her if she wants a divorce to be happy I will step aside and let her go. Which I have done several times. But she reels me back in. And I am happy she does.
Our last break-up, which she nearly always initiates due to her in-ability to handle my intimacy with my wife, she is horribly jealous (she has sex with her DH - and had a one night stand with a guy in our hometown during one of break-ups 2.5 years ago - yes, I am very jealous too, but any alternative is worse). Well last time we broke up I had my wife's first initial tattoed over my heart thinking that would keep AP away, even if I couldn't keep away from her. Well, it kept her away for about 2 weeks. And so it goes.
Well Nonchalant, you posted a vague question, and not to flame the guys who responded, but they seem a lot more sensitive than I. Exactly what perspective are you seeking?
As a single guy I had several affairs with MW. And you know what - all I wanted was to "F" their brains out. And that's exactly what I did! This is an ugly game we play.
But I promise everyone reading this, with the horrible exception of my DW, I have always been 100% honest and open upfront of my intentions. Sex and friendship.
Muddy Waters
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