yes or no, that is the question

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Registered: 11-07-2009
yes or no, that is the question
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Sat, 12-12-2009 - 11:26am

hi its me again about my feelings 4 a MM & telling him that i have feelings 4 him.


quick back story - i told a MM that i have feelings 4 him thru a phone call about 2 months ago.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 11:36am

Sorry tinatoodles,but your MM hasnt come back to you in 5 weeks.I would take that as a refusal to the proposal made by you.Dont call him because you may be disappointed.

You declared your feelings,he went hiding.You offered meeting up,he hasnt called back.

Move on.

Are you married?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2009
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 11:54am
How long should you wait?
~Layla~
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Registered: 10-25-2007
Sun, 12-13-2009 - 9:23pm
Im sorry. It sounds as if what you told him, scared him. He apparently doesn't feel the same or he would have contacted you by now. I don't mean to sound harsh but that seems to be the case. No, I wouldn't contact him. It's good that you got your feelings out before you got more involved in it. I hope you can keep from contacting him and move on. Best of luck. I am sorry you are hurting like that.