my heart is broken apart.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
my heart is broken apart.
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Fri, 12-18-2009 - 6:48pm
i'll put this in a short version. my ap is going through a very rough time. his wife moved very far away with his 2 kids. it's been a bit over a week since they moved, and now he's become very depressed. he wants nothing more then to be with his kids.

MoonUnit

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Registered: 10-25-2007
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 7:43pm
I am so sorry you are hurting. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. What you told him was a very hard thing to do but I think you did the right thing. If you two are meant to be, it will be. He will see how much you love him by your letting him go. I wish I could give you a big hug. You are in my thoughts..
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Registered: 08-08-2009
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 8:14pm
thank you. this is all so very painful. i wish i could take it all back. we have been together for 2 and half years. we have been through a lot together. i love him very deeply.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

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Registered: 07-12-2004
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 9:18pm

Moon,

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 10:02pm
I don't know if i did the right thing or not, but on monday he's leaving for a 20 hour drive back home to his family. i sent him an ecard for him to recieve on sunday just to say have a safe trip, i'll be worrying about you and that i love him, and he's never let me down. this hurts so much, i told him that i would not email him, and i did. i could not have him leave without me saying good bye.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

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Registered: 09-07-2009
Sat, 12-19-2009 - 2:28am

Dear I am so sorry for your pain.
Obligation for a man is a powerful thing.
As much as it hurts I am sure he loves you and does/will miss you dearly.

You are a strong, caring woman. Sending you Strength.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Sat, 12-19-2009 - 7:57am
i feel so empty right now. i/m grateful for having to work, otherwise i would make myself sick with depression and what ever thoughts comes to my mind.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit