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Ridiculous lies
| Sat, 12-19-2009 - 12:33pm |
I was reading through some posts and this just came to me. I would like to know what some of the ludicrous lies are that your AP's have told in order to get out of something, be it going out or when they have been suspected of something? This ought to be very entertaining. Come on people. Surely someone has something to say.
Edited 12/22/2009 9:56 pm ET by nonchalant345
Edited 12/22/2009 9:56 pm ET by nonchalant345

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I have been busy holiday shopping and baking the last few days, so haven't been around to post much.
Edited 12/27/2009 5:24 pm ET by nonchalant345
Edited 12/27/2009 5:26 pm ET by nonchalant345
Ok, I want to scream right now because of a stupid lie, so thought I'd add it here.
He's getting back into town early evening tomorrow from visiting family. Two nites ago we talked on the phone and he wanted to know if I could pick him up. I asked what time he would be getting in and he kept saying he wasn't sure/didn't know/couldn't remember. (*I* knew the time from prev seeing his itinerary). I said, I will be working part of the day, but have a flexible schedule. I said I would likely be going in later in the day rather than early morning because I might be going out for a drink with my best friend the nite before and wouldn't want to get up super early if I was going to be up late-ish.
Well, today, I talked to him and asked what time he was getting in. He proceeds to tell me he's "now" getting in late evening and changed his ticket from a flight arriving early afternoon because I was working. WTH? He did not change his ticket! The time he told me he's "now" getting in is when his flight originally was. So he's making me think he changed his ticket for or because of me...like that was doing me a favor or something?! It sounded like a mini-guilt trip or like he was punishing me in some way (for possibly going out late or going to work late and not being available to pick him up sooner) IDK. I HATE games like that. It's manipulative and borderline abusive when done repeatedly.
I'm so irritated. I'm sure once I do pick him up, he'll want to eat, have S, and will then want me to drop him off at his place (oh joy) making up some excuse why he can't spend the nite. This is yet another sign/validation that I need to end this soon. The pain and living with lies is getting insane.
Okay I got one. This is probably the only lie I caught my xap in. When we met he told me that he had not had sex with his GF in 6 months. A year later after the A was over we got on the subject of his relationship with his GF and he said it had been a year since he was with his GF in a physical way.....ummmm? Okay, those numbers don't add up, and I told him as much, he responded with...."well I don't know, I'm not good with dates"...lol. Maybe its me, but I think the one thing that men can remember is the last time they had sex with the person they live with and suppose to love?
And what makes it sadder is that we had conversations before about this and I told him on many occasions that I did not care if he had sex with his GF, told him to work on his realtionship try to reconnect.....blah blah blah...Nope he assured me that they don't have sex, she's not interested.
Now, why he thinks that I believed for a minute that he didn't have sex with his GF is beyond me? Maybe it wasn't great wonderful earth shattering sex, but I'm almost sure he was getting something.
*I'm happy to report ...I have not caught my current AP in any lies yet*.
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