My heart is breaking and I knew better

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2009
My heart is breaking and I knew better
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Tue, 12-29-2009 - 2:21am

As my title says, my heart is breaking and I freaking knew better.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Tue, 12-29-2009 - 10:42am
HW2010, I am so sorry you're hurting like this. It is so easy to say to yourself that you won't become emotionally involved, but we always do. I understand his need to be single for a while, to find himself, after his D. I'm sure you understand his need for that also. Do you know what it is you want from the relationship? Can you continue to see him? How far vested in this R are you? I wish you the best. Come here for hugs. xoxo
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
Tue, 12-29-2009 - 2:12pm

Whether you are married or not, you need someone that is on a level playing field with you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2009
Tue, 12-29-2009 - 3:49pm

Wow, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can relate to a tiny bit of your situation in that my A was with a MM who did become divorced and now is a SM, but he did not want to end things with me to be single a while.

~Layla~