I miss you

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2009
I miss you
3
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 7:04am

I miss seeing you, talking to you, chatting with you, touching you.

Every recovery is a kind of rebirth
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-24-2009
In reply to: whats_going_on
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 9:17am

I am so sad reading this post. The feelings in it are so raw. I know that feeling. And I know about

~Layla~
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: whats_going_on
Wed, 12-30-2009 - 12:56pm

((( hugs ))) Holidays can be crushing with NC,i do understand.I am sorry that your AP has not contacted you but why havent you? Cant you contact him?
Are you M? AP?

(( hugs ))

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2009
In reply to: whats_going_on
Thu, 12-31-2009 - 3:20am

Hi both of you!


Thanks so much for your answers, I am so glad for this message board, I think I would have gone crazy if I didn't discover it!


I am a MW, he is in a relationship, I don't really know how serious they are, and I have not asked. We never talk about our other spouses. The longer our A continues, the less we talk about really personal things, its a strange development, because when he first started out we were so open! I guess we are both protecting ourselves now?


I don't really know why I haven't contacted him, I guess one time I contacted him and he seemed very stand off - ish, uninterested, and it really hurt

Every recovery is a kind of rebirth