Newbie need some advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
Newbie need some advice
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Tue, 06-01-2010 - 10:35am

Hi all,


I am hoping that I can get some good advice about my affair. I have been lurking for a while and finally found the courage to post. hoping I can use this board when I need to vent.


My story is back in February had a friend request on FB from a guy, I never add strangers

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 11:54am

" I have given him till the end of the week to contact me or reply then I am moving on." See,the thing with an ultimatum is that they can work either way.

You will know your fate by the end of this week,till then try to relax.

BTW,even if your AP ends his M and comes to you,its no guarantee that he will stay.Many times they go back to spouse.Your A is just a couple of months old,I wouldnt advice to count too much on it.

I get that you are SW.Why not find an available S guy?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 3:48pm

Welcome to MAS, ali:).


You're not going to like hearing this, and it's only my personal opinion, but I think you should try to walk away and find some who's available.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 4:44pm

Hi chick,


thanks for your reply and yes I am a SW. I came out of a 7 year relationship just under 3 years ago which left me badly scarred he left me for another woman. since then I have never really wanted to have a relationship. I have dated but no one has ever made me feel that I wanted anything long term. plus I have had a busy life as well as being a

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2010
Tue, 06-01-2010 - 4:55pm

hi another,