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| Wed, 06-02-2010 - 4:11pm |
First of all, I want to apologize to you all for not being terribly supportive the last few days.
| Wed, 06-02-2010 - 4:11pm |
First of all, I want to apologize to you all for not being terribly supportive the last few days.
Hugs to you anothers eyes! I know how hard this is for you because I go through those feelings all the time. I think you made a great step in the right direction by having NC but if you want it for good you can't have him contact you at all. A big part of me wants to do NC but I'm not ready yet.
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Hi another,
((HUGS)) anothers. Hang in there, girl...you've got a lot swirling around in your head. Deep breath...big decisions looming and it sounds like stepping away from the a is in your best interest right now.
I SO understand your feeling of giving up AP being harder than giving up your M at this point. You sort of have to keep in mind that you can't **really** compare the two...a's are in large part about escape...M is the day-to-day nitty gritty, but I know you know that ;)
I've also seen MANY times where when one AP separates/divorces...it creates an imbalance in how things started...I think you may have seen AP back WAY off or end it himself. I'm certain he does care for you a great deal, but make no mistake, he knows, too, that he can't be there for you like you need/want him to be through that...I think it's even harder for a man to be in a position of not being able to "fix" somehting...and he can't fix this.
Hoping you're in a better place soon...
Thank you everyone!
I really think AP felt that my separating would be a good thing for us, that it would be easier for us to communicate with each other and we'd have one less person to try to hide things from.
anotherseyes
I like what Kimber said about the big decisions looming.
If you need help with NC, the EAS board is a great place for support. May want to give it a look, if you are uncomfortable posting, just read. Scroll down to the healing library or look at tips for NC. A wealth of info if you are interested.
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Still not sure this is the right thing to do.
anotherseyes
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