Why is This so Hard?
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Why is This so Hard?
| Wed, 06-09-2010 - 12:40am |
So after him ignoring my texts Friday night, I essentially go NC with him all weekend (he was home this weekend).
| Wed, 06-09-2010 - 12:40am |
So after him ignoring my texts Friday night, I essentially go NC with him all weekend (he was home this weekend).
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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I'm trying!
anotherseyes
But how can I limit my contact with him/make myself less available to him?
anotherseyes
I so relate to this post. I think I get totally obsessed over my affair and its affecting many parts of my life. Bottom line, its not a healthy relationship and can really get your "head" messed up. I think maybe we all need big time counseling. It's actually painful sometimes to be in affair, because you are living for "hopes"....when in fact you should be living each day as is, fully, happily, having your needs met by a loving healthy partner that is invested in you.
Talking to myself too...and trying not to contact him today...it is freakin hard.
"Isn't it a "game", so to speak, if I all of a sudden start playing hard to get?"
You already are in the game.Whosoever started it , him or you,it really doesnt matter.The point is its begun and unfortunately it will end bad.
True, by having an A we are not being fair to other people but it pays well to be atleast fair to each other.If that is not possible or you cant,then whats the point of it all?
I was pondering this same thought a lot this week.
anotherseyes
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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