Feel D day is looming!
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| Mon, 06-14-2010 - 1:58pm |
Not sure if I'm looking for advice or just want to get things off my chest so apologise in advance if it turns into a rambling post.
On saturday night AP phoned me to come to my house, he asked me to say hi to his mum ( he told me ages ago he had told his parents about me which I was unsure was true!). I spoke to his mum only for a minute to say hi and for her to tell me he had been drinking and had he woke me up, but she seemed nice .when he turned up at my house he looked upset which I picked up on straight away. He explained that he had been at his parents pouring his heart out to them about how much he loved me , wanted to be with me and wanted to tell his W that his marriage was over. His parents told him that he needs to tell his W as he can't go on like this for much longer.
He told me that he was sick of lying and making excuses up and that he just wanted to be with me. We had a really good talk, he told me that he had never felt this way about anyone even his W and I have completely knocked him off his feet. he said everytime he left me it was getting harder

There is nothing wrong in being hopeful and positive!!
IMO, your MM should not tell his W about the A and then file for D as it most likely will turn the D in an ugly battle.Does your AP have kids?How old are they? What state is he in ? All states have different ground rules for D.Does she also want a D ?
My 2c !
Hi Chick,