Advice.. long sorry

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Registered: 11-02-2009
Advice.. long sorry
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Wed, 06-16-2010 - 3:52pm

Hi Everyone, I really know the answer but I am hoping to that som e of you know what I am going through and maybe offer another way to keep this going...


My AP is very selfish, it took me a while to get this but after 3 years I know he is.

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Registered: 08-30-2009
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 7:15pm

Wow lostinlove your situation sounds like mine. My AP makes plans also to meet out of town then as the date draws near the plans are not defined. My AP is also marrried, I guess being a man means he just can say to his DW I have to go out of town for work and decide this at the last minute. Us women on the other hand we cant just up and go on a moment's notice. I would say ask him if he is still planning on Mexico if no definite plans soon then tell him the trip is off!