newbie - looking for support

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Registered: 06-17-2010
newbie - looking for support
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Thu, 06-17-2010 - 2:58pm

Hey all, I am new to the boards and feel like I have found a home after reading so many of your stories...


My story is so similar to many of you.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Thu, 06-17-2010 - 5:38pm
Welcome, lellibee :) Glad you're here! Post away as things arise...there will probably be someone who's been there. Sounds like you're going through some incredible changes...exciting, but scary. Look forward to hearing more.
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 3:00pm

Welcome lellibee!

It sounds like all your feelings are completely normal, and you've come to the right place for understanding. Looking forward to more of your posts!

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 7:44pm

While I totally understand your guilt - we all have it - you didn't go looking for an A, you're not doing it to HURT your H... you're in love. You are far from alone in what you are going through!

Be careful as you get excited in this stretch not to let H find out - or his W - as I worry about it impacting your amicable divorces. Meanwhile... good luck!

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Sat, 06-19-2010 - 6:02pm
Will it completely freak you out to say - both our respective spouses know! It caused a considerable amount of drama initially, but both my H and his W have realized in the last several months that this is not a fly by night thing....strange as that sounds....
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Registered: 06-12-2010
Wed, 06-23-2010 - 2:09am

LOL! Lellibee, I met you on the "surving divorce" board. You're story is very similar to mine(well we know about the "good marriage" part.