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Days like this
| Fri, 06-18-2010 - 9:31pm |
These are the days when I sit and wonder why I'm in this situation. He was texting via his computer to my phone. Next thing you know..nothing. So I worry...did she catch him? What happened? Secondly, I sit here on a Friday night all alone while he is with his wife and family. My sons are out with friends. Make me what to "get a life." That is the famous line from my sons.
.....Choices....either continue this A or move ahead and "get a life" that can be open.
TanZa2920

I take it that you are single?
Write down everything you're feeling right now - anger, dissapointment, resentment, loneliness, feeling foolish and like you don't matter - and if you stay and continue on with this affair, just see how soon you'll feel like that AGAIN. Because it won't be long. It will never change, 3 weeks or 3 months or 3 years from now you're still be feeling like tonight. He stopped talking to you not because he had a dday or there is a life-threatening emergency in his house. No, his wife called him to eat dinner, and now he is maybe watching TV and enjoys nice family life and totally forgot about you, while you're sitting on Friday night all alone and in agony, trying to make sense out of it.
So yes, get a life. Don't waste your time on this nonsense.
xoxo
Gone
Sorry you're feeling BUMMED, tanza. (HUG)
I hear ya tanza,
I haven't left my house in a week...AP/BF meanwhile has been staying at home, working on the garden, working on the house...working in his garage. He's making lunches and dinners, while I sit here with no appetite whatsoever. And he doesn't mind telling me all about it, I honestly don't think he "gets" it.
I wonder the same things as you do....more and more everyday. Do you know? When I first split with my x-h, and before people knew I was with AP/BF, I got invitation after invitation...from all kinds of "single" men. Unfortunately, none of them did anything for me that way, love AP/BF..to my detriment.
Hang in there, maybe I'll see you over at EAS one day :)
If you're single, sounds like you have two choices:
1)
anotherseyes