next step?

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Registered: 06-17-2010
next step?
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Mon, 06-21-2010 - 12:38pm

Okay - so since I put out the generics of my history with A, I'm curious if anyone else has had the transition into a full-time relationship, and possibly M with AP?

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Registered: 03-30-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 4:26pm

Hi Lellibee,


I think it won't hurt if you both gave the M idea some rest and focused on fixing the other parts of your lives that this A has effected. Not saying you both can't marry in the future but it can do both of you good to step back and heal yourselves from the emotions of this entire thing. You also have to keep in your your children and you don't want to jump into anything right away. Give them time to digest the fact that your not with there parent first.


I'm not an expert but hey I wish you all the best. Nothing wrong with doing "you" and doing some soul searching of your own.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 9:25pm
I think just the fact that you're questioning it means M is not the right step for you guys just yet.

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