Actions versus words

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Actions versus words
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Mon, 06-21-2010 - 1:30pm
Hi. I am new to this forum and am happy to have found it! I have a question about what people say about the way to tell your guy is in love with you or is falling for you. I am married and he is single. Been seeing each other a while now. I have read that a man will look you in the eye, stare at you when you're not looking, want to see you on weekends, etc. Is this true and what are some of the other signs he has feelings for me? I am pretty sure he is into me but don't want to ask because I have also read how men don't like to talk about feelings. I eventually will, though.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 1:37pm

**Chuckle** this is an age-old question EVERYONE wants the answer to :)

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 1:47pm

stargazer,


Everyone has thier own interpretation of how to know he is in love with you....I can say in my experience, having had a H who could care less if I was around or not and an A who everyone assumes is

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 5:30pm
Thanks. I feel like he loves me. I have a sense about it. Just wanted some opinions from here. This is a good place for advice.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 9:32pm
Though it's nice to hear it, I personally believe that actions speak louder than words: love isn't something that we say, it's something that we do.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 11:40pm

I think that, in general, men do have a much more difficult time defining their feelings and then expressing them.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 2:05pm

These are my AP's "words": I care about you a great deal, I don't want to lose you, I can't allow myself to fall in love with you.


Some of his "actions":

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 3:52pm
Thanks for all of the responses. I know he cares for me. He watches what I want on TV if I don't like what is on, he stares at me all the time when I am not looking(but I catch him), he worries about upsetting me and apologizes if he does, used to only see him during the week at night, and now I get to see him sometimes on Saturday afternoon when he makes time to see me. He is totally focused on me when I am talking and never makes light of it. We talk about everything from childhood to work to whatever else. He says he feels comfortable with me and can talk about anything. I can tell by the way he kisses me, that he feels something. He always kisses me goodbye. Not a long kiss but a peck on the lips and a hug. Sometimes I get a smack on the butt, too, ha ha. What do you all think?
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 4:34pm

I think it sounds like he's at least very fond of you.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 5:33pm
The butt smack thing is funny lol. Its always playful and he does it after he kisses me bye. We have amazing chemistry. Feel comfortable with each other and talk about our days, probs etc. I find him so hot. Im hoping to see him tonight. Btw we dont always have sex when we are together. He has said theres no pressure to do it. Another reason i think theres more to it.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 6:38pm

Trust me, we have amazing chemistry, too.

anotherseyes

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