To Email or Not?

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Registered: 04-28-2010
To Email or Not?
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Mon, 06-21-2010 - 11:55pm
I'm on vacation and was able to get Internet access, so can keep up with what's going on, hence why I am able to post here too :). Not sure if I should contact EAP or not. Before I left I told him I would miss him and he told me to text if I could. Will three weeks of NC make him miss me or forget about me? We just acknowledged to one another the day before I left that we were attracted to each other, that the feelings were mutual, although my guess is mine are more intense than his. Just curious as to what you would do-email or not?
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Registered: 10-05-2009
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 1:24am
I think you should not.
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Registered: 05-29-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 10:07am

I agree, don't email him.

Most guy seem to operate under that 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. If you guys admitted to each other about having feelings right before you left, he probably hasn't forgotten you. He's probably been thinking about you a lot.

When you get back, say something lightly like oh, sorry I didn't get a chance to message you! Or don't even say anything at all.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 1:52pm

I agree with the others: don't email him.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 3:58pm
Thanks Ladies, but I caved and emailed him-just a "hi, how are you?" He responded within a few minutes and we had a few more exchanges. It was nice. Now I am set for the rest of vacation not to email him. I was just feeling insecure and vulnerable after confessing everything before I left with no way to gauge how it would affect him. Since he replied and asked about me and things, I assume all is just fine. I agree though-it is good for him to miss me, so he'll see me when I get back in 2 weeks!