Moving on..... I hope

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Moving on..... I hope
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Fri, 06-25-2010 - 7:39am

After many years of A, some really good, most just OK, and this last one more agonizing for ME than it was good I am going to try my best to move on from him.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 8:01am
Best wishes, pen...I know it's HARD ((HUGS))
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 8:02am
Good for you, Penny, for moving forward with your life and ending what has become a drain on your joy rather than a supplement! Listen to the ladies at EAS, they will guide you and cheer you every step of the way! (((HUGS)))

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 8:58am

Gosh I admire your strength. Please let us know how you go.


All the very best for a wonderful marriage with great love and warmth xxx

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 8:59am

Hi Penny,


I'm genuinely happy for you. I hope you find the love & strength you need to continue on your path to healing. I think you made a good decision & although it may hurt, you will continue moving forward because its what's best for you. If this A is no longer doing what it use to do for you then why continue? Why do we start such things anyway? They are so draining but I have read that it works for some people and I will never judge that.


 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-21-2010
Fri, 06-25-2010 - 10:34am

Penny, I am really happy you are able to see things for what they are. To realize that what you were hanging on to is gone. It takes a while to figure that out and some never do. Good for you for living in this moment! And for seeing that everything you need is already right next to you in bed every night.


I have found that this road will only be difficult if you continue to cling to the past and play the same old games. But the way you sound, it shows me that though you may still suffer a bit of paiin in truly letting go, you are well on your way and I believe your healing will come quickly.


Be patient with yourself... you just made your first excellent decision towards finding peace and happiness again.