think its time to end affair

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Registered: 05-01-2010
think its time to end affair
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Sat, 06-26-2010 - 1:45pm

I don't know if I can handle this anymore. I got emotional a few days ago and AP admitted that I was his stress reliever.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sat, 06-26-2010 - 3:41pm

Well, first, I would take what he said with a grain of salt.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 3:52pm

Hi Army_Mom,


Don't we all just melt when we lay eyes on them. I know my heart beats quickly as if I were 15 years old again seeing my HS crush. The butterflies in my stomach when I see him but I think he was being as honest as he possibly could with you and was right when he said:


the reason he is doing this is to show me that there are other men out there, and that I should get out of my relationship if I am not happy, and that life is to short to be wasting it with someone who will not commit to me.


He's absolutely right and at least he's being a man about it and admitted it. You do deserve to be happy and have someone who can devote themselves 100% to you.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-01-2010
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 6:57pm

So this weekend, he knew my plans and actually showed up sat night. he knew that I was drinking and dancing and having fun with other people ( some male friends also), that just proves to me that his actions are louder than his words.


Of course I left to be with him, nothing said about the emotional outburst from me. When he came to where I was, it just happened that I was dancing with a (gay) male friend of mine. you could see