I'm very cautious. I wasn't always so. In my second A (with a sociopath LOL) we had frequent outdoor semi public sex. It was thrilling. I am usually NOT a risk taker so I don't know why he brought that out in me but when I think back on it I actually cringe with what I was risking. I wonder where my head was at! I really did NOT want to get caught. He had nothing to lose - he wasn't married and I think it gave him a thrill that I could be so ruined and he would walk away pretty scott-free. Yikes, when I think about it now, I just shudder.
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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
It is definitely exciting and thrilling to be risky and dangerous in As, especially because they can be risky in and of themselves! Yes I am definitely risky and reckless in As. With my current AP, we had sex in our offices almost every week, and obviously we could have been fired and had our reputations tarnished by that. We'd also steal kisses in the stairwells or empty hallways. I stayed over at his house one night when his wife was working overnight. We even drove down the street on the way to his house that she was probably driving down, on her way to work! (I was freaking and hiding down by the car seat).
With my FWB, we had sex in the bathroom at a party where all our mutual friends were (who also all know we are in long term relationships), and also made out in the bathrooms at bars, with both our SOs out on the dance floor.
So yes risky, and also every stupid. I'm trying to learn the difference between exciting and downright stupid and total bait.
I love my BF and would be devastated to lose him, so I gotta stop playing with fire all the time. I don't know though, sometimes I wonder what's wrong with me, that I am so reckless and careless sometimes.
And yes jane, I totally know what you mean about feeling almost kinda smug and good about yourself when you are around their SO. I think it's power - we have it because we are fooling around with their DH/BF. That feeling of power is exciting and really boosts your self-esteem, as sad as it is to say.
Here I thought I was the only danger junkie! My AP and I have sex in this lonely, secluded train stop on our way home. We go begind the stairs and usually I'll have a skirt on and have a quickie there. Its so exciting and we get such a rush. We feel like teenagers! At work we also steal kisses in the elevators and hallway. The really exciting one would be one of the floors were under construction and he had the code to get in and out of that floor. It was a Friday and everyone left for the day. He took me to one of the offices that had this Mahogoney wooden desk. He placed me on it and just went crazy! I love how spontaneous and crazy we are. Our physical relationship is unlike anything I've ever experienced, for your body to crave someone that way amazes me.
You naughty girl ;) lol
No, we're generally not dangerous people.
anotherseyes
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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It is definitely exciting and thrilling to be risky and dangerous in As, especially because they can be risky in and of themselves!
Yes I am definitely risky and reckless in As. With my current AP, we had sex in our offices almost every week, and obviously we could have been fired and had our reputations tarnished by that. We'd also steal kisses in the stairwells or empty hallways. I stayed over at his house one night when his wife was working overnight. We even drove down the street on the way to his house that she was probably driving down, on her way to work! (I was freaking and hiding down by the car seat).
With my FWB, we had sex in the bathroom at a party where all our mutual friends were (who also all know we are in long term relationships), and also made out in the bathrooms at bars, with both our SOs out on the dance floor.
So yes risky, and also every stupid. I'm trying to learn the difference between exciting and downright stupid and total bait.
I love my BF and would be devastated to lose him, so I gotta stop playing with fire all the time. I don't know though, sometimes I wonder what's wrong with me, that I am so reckless and careless sometimes.
And yes jane, I totally know what you mean about feeling almost kinda smug and good about yourself when you are around their SO. I think it's power - we have it because we are fooling around with their DH/BF. That feeling of power is exciting and really boosts your self-esteem, as sad as it is to say.
OK, I'm totally getting turned on by everybody else's dangerous stories!
"AE-That sounds pretty naughty to me!!
anotherseyes
Hi Ladies,
Here I thought I was the only danger junkie! My AP and I have sex in this lonely, secluded train stop on our way home. We go begind the stairs and usually I'll have a skirt on and have a quickie there. Its so exciting and we get such a rush. We feel like teenagers! At work we also steal kisses in the elevators and hallway. The really exciting one would be one of the floors were under construction and he had the code to get in and out of that floor. It was a Friday and everyone left for the day. He took me to one of the offices that had this Mahogoney wooden desk. He placed me on it and just went crazy! I love how spontaneous and crazy we are. Our physical relationship is unlike anything I've ever experienced, for your body to crave someone that way amazes me.
You have me remeniscing Janejosie =)
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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hey guys.. careful of security cameras!!!