how to face DH right after being with AP

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Registered: 06-08-2010
how to face DH right after being with AP
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Mon, 06-28-2010 - 3:51pm

AP asked to get together tonight while my DH is at home with kids. Usually we meet in the mornings when DH is at work or evenings when he is away. This will be the first time that I will come home to DH right after being with AP. I am very nervous about it. I really hope DH will not notice anything different about me. I would really appreciate any advice on how to not get discovered, on what to do and not to do.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 3:57pm

Hi Freedom,


First I want to say that if you feel nervous and your instincts are saying not to do this, then by all means don't follow through. Please listen to your gut feeling but should you decide to go along with it anyway, like I always do because I'm crazy I would act as normal as possible and not change my routine when arriving home. Don't rush straight to the bathroom to shower or he'll be suspicious. Come

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 06-06-2010
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 4:05pm
I agree with Rayne, and will to pay your attention to the reason why you are going out. Everything you do-your dress code and anything that you will bring home-should revolve around the excuse you gave to get out of the house.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 4:07pm
I agree with Rayne and Discreet: make sure your appearance when leaving goes along with wherever it is you say you're going.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-08-2010
Mon, 06-28-2010 - 5:05pm
Thank you all for your advice. I didn't say no to AP because if we don't meet tonight, I don't know when the next time will be. Most likely not this week and I really want to spend a little time with him. It will definitely be the riskiest date so far. I will definitely take a brush and powder with me:) I still feel nervous about the date, not just because I am worried about my behavior, but because I will have to lay down next to DH right after having sex with AP. I really hope DH will be asleep by the time I get home.