What's Ap's & Jealousy
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What's Ap's & Jealousy
| Thu, 09-02-2010 - 4:51pm |
Hello ~
I just don't get jealousy from My AP! this can be lengthy.
I have several male friends that I consider
| Thu, 09-02-2010 - 4:51pm |
Hello ~
I just don't get jealousy from My AP! this can be lengthy.
I have several male friends that I consider
Don't know if you are married or not.. though it matters little..
You are not his to make claims on.. neither is he yours for the same.. some playful jealousy is nice.. but past that, it is encroachment..
Whether you may have an interest in Justin or not is your business, not his..
Helps to have ground rules in this situation.. ie, if you are both married, then to say, you each will be the only other etc.. or, that, if someone else is in the picture, you'll let the other know and move on.. etc..
Men do act possesive regardless of the circumstances.. I should know.. I may feel jealous about my AP, and she knows this, and sometimes plays with me, but at the end, we know what our ground rules are.. and that I feel jealous becasuse I care.. not because I expect her to act one way or the other.. it is my responsibility to control my jealousy, though I may share it with her..
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Possessiveness and jealousy seems to be a personality trait that some have more than others. Also things about childhood can bring it about. I think your AP is just one of those possessive jealous types (seems to run in alpha males). My father was like that and he was an alcoholic so that always brings out the worst in someone and my mother couldn't even look at another guy and had to keep her head down around guys or he would accuse her of wanting someone or having an affair with someone. There would be screaming fights in the night. I always swore I would never be with a guy like that and broke up with anyone that I got even a whiff of possessiveness from. Living with someone like that is like being in prison.
You can't be logical with that type of guy. He won't be logical back. You won't be able to win. I would think really hard about getting further involved with him!
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i think AP looooooves u, and a little jealousy is cute and healthy!! as a man, he is probably right. if u and J have kissed - that's pretty intimate. for all u know J is just lurking around waiting for the right time to do more with u. if u really adore AP and u know J makes AP crazy jealous (b/c we all know that horny men can't be trusted) u should 1) tell AP that has nothing to worry about, and then prove