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| Tue, 09-07-2010 - 4:52pm |
As most of you know, I've been on the path to ending my A, or maybe just following AP down it.
| Tue, 09-07-2010 - 4:52pm |
As most of you know, I've been on the path to ending my A, or maybe just following AP down it.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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All the very very best over there Jane :-). I will be keeping tabs on you in my lurkdom lol
Keep well and sending HUGS galore your way.
Xx
Bird
Oh Janie janie janie
HUGE HUG!!!!! I really want you to find yourself, your soul and then love. In that order.
Im sure I'll be seeing you over at EAS, so for now I think saying goodbye is important. I know that going NC is often best for some people, but personally sending an email, after our lunch, will help me as I know I got to say what needed to be said.
Thats all I have for you now love. But Im here and have the hard liquor when you are ready!
Iggy
((HUGS)) Jane :) You have been on that ride too long...I'm PROUD of you for deciding to get off. No doubt you've made the right decision for YOU.
Just one little thing I'd like to address for you: The not feeling guilt...very common for women in A's. Back when I tried to end and went to T to try and straighten myself out (HA!) I initially went b/c I felt guilty for not feeling guilty.
There's a whole bunch of chemical and psychological stuff behind it all, but the bottom line is that often the female forms an emotional bond (yes, it can be and is often one-sided in A's) and thus is able to "justify" her actions in her own mind, removing guilt being a factor. Is it right? Well, there are surely people reading who will loudly proclaim, "HECK, NO!!!", but the physiological response is what it is...you're human. So, take that off your list of things to beat yourself up over...you've got bigger fish to fry :) Hang in there...