Update to my last posting......

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Registered: 11-30-2003
Update to my last posting......
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Sat, 12-06-2003 - 1:15am
Hi Everyone, Well, I did tell you all that I would come back and tell you what he said. Well I did bring it the fact that he had posted on a personals ad and he said that he wasnt a subscriber. Sooo I go on to tell him this morning that I was emailing a girlfriend (which I was in reply to her) and he said to me, Well, you sure that isnt a guy? I think you are lying? And to top this, he feels that he hates my job. That I should let him support me as I would not know what my surroundings are, and that I would be inviting trouble. So now he is pouting after I stand up for myself and refuses to talk with me. Is this signs of a troubled and insecure man, or what? I have had it with this man, way too controlling for me.

Soooo on I go,

~Cheryle~
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 12-06-2003 - 7:46am
I think you need to look at why you wold get involved with such a man in the first place - a man like that usually shows his controlling ways within the first few dates - sometimes subtly but if you listen you can see/sense it.
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Registered: 06-20-2003
Sat, 12-06-2003 - 10:52am
I agree. I have been in a relationship with a control freak, and sure enough, the red flags were there from the beginning.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 12-06-2003 - 12:28pm

Oh, lordy, my ex said much the same thing when I

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Sat, 12-06-2003 - 12:46pm

no this is not a sign of a "troubled and insecure man" ---- these are HUGE red flags of a controlling and potentially