Dreams

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Registered: 12-06-2003
Dreams
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Sat, 12-06-2003 - 7:15pm
I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 3YRS. IS IT UNCOMMON TO HAVE SEX DREAMS ABOUT OTHER MEN THAT I KNOW? SHOOULD I TELL MY HUSBAND THAT I HAVE THESE DREAMS? I ONLY HAVE DREAMS ABOUT ONE GUY IN PARTICULAR AND THIS GUY HAS A "CRUSH" ON ME WHAT SOULD I DO? I ENJOY THE DREAMS VERY MUCH BUT NOW I FEEL UNFAITHFUL IN A WAY HELP!!!!!!!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: felony113
Sun, 12-07-2003 - 9:58pm

Hi


You're probably going to get differing opinions but in my mind, no there's nothing wrong with you

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Registered: 06-20-2003
In reply to: felony113
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 10:28am
I agree, and BTW you don't have any control over what you are dreaming. As long as this fantasy remains a fantasy, there is no problem. It would be terrible for you to tell your husband- why in the world would you do that? Do you not think that he doesn't have fantasies? How would you feel if he told you the details, and especially if it was someone that you knew? That is just a dumb thing to do, and it WILL open up a can of worms and lots of problems.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: felony113
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 12:20pm
Dreams are just dreams. Don't worry about it. And don't tell your husband. This has the potential to cause strife in your relationship or at least make your husband uncomfortable and why would you want to do that?
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Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: felony113
Mon, 12-08-2003 - 1:32pm
I agree with the prevoius posters. Obviously just don't act upon the dreams.