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| Mon, 12-08-2003 - 9:32am |
My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years recently broke up with me. I don't want it to be over and from everything that he has said durring and since we were togeather i don't believe he truly does eigther.
So how do I let him know it's okay to ask me to come back. the catch is how do i do it without coming crawling back to him.
So how do I let him know it's okay to ask me to come back. the catch is how do i do it without coming crawling back to him.

I know that I have several questions for you that were not provided in your message, however, I do have a piece of advice. I would suggest just talking, no manipulation involved, but just pure honest & open communications. Tell him how the break up affected you and then discuss why his conversation has changed since breaking up with you. Allow him to truly tell where his head was at back then and where his head is at now. You say that his conversation with you since the break up indicates that he doesn't want the relationship to be over. Well, if that is truly the case, then having this conversation with him could be the catalyst that will prompt him to tell you that he wants to rekindle the relationship.
so in answer to your question not really for any reason except that we were both really hot and now it's just kinda done so we can't pretend it didn't happen.