How do i spice things up?
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How do i spice things up?
| Tue, 12-09-2003 - 3:16pm |
my b/f and i have only been together for about 8 mths. (on and off). i wanted to know if any of you had some tips/ideas to spice up our relationship? i'm the type to write love notes and letters and he isn't, but i just want to keep the fires burnin'. thanks.

Tell him to meet you at home for afternoon sex.
Greet him at the door.
Give him a bj in the shower.
Take a bath together.
Give him a massage.
Send suggestive emails or text msg during the day.
Leave a card in his car or mail him a card.
Be spontaneous.
Reading material to consider:
Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix
This book talks about doing nice things for each other for the sake of being nice to each other - making coffee/breakast in the morning, buying flowers, saying thank you, etc.
Carrie