He didn't "CHEAT" so can I trust him??
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He didn't "CHEAT" so can I trust him??
| Tue, 12-09-2003 - 10:51pm |
A few days after my current boyfriend officially asked me out I found out from a friend that he had kissed a girl at a party just 10 days before that. The thing is that I had asked him a few days before when we were just dating if he had hooked up with anyone and I specifically said that I wouldn't be angry with him if he had, I just wanted to know if he wanted to be exclusive. He said that he had not and that he would be upset if I hooked up with someone. So what bothered me was that he outright lied and even went on to say how he wouldn't want me to do what he did. My boyfriend lead a very promiscuous lifestyle before he met me and he's always at parties where girls throw themselves at him, and I did trust him before, but after I found out he lied to me, I've always had doubts whenever he was out and I wasn't with him. He told me he wouldn't have asked me to be his girlfriend if he didn't want to be with just me, that he hasn't felt this way about someone in a long time, and he's never cheated on a serious girlfriend before. He said that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me before so he didn't really see the point in telling me about his hookup because it would just upset me. So I want to know if I can trust what he says, although he didn't technically cheat on me, but he did lie, and if a guy can really change what they want in 10 day? What would any of you do in my place (guy or girl)?

I don't see what he did 10 days before he asked you out has anything to do with you.
James
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