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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2003
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Thu, 12-11-2003 - 6:49am
Hi as you know in my last message i betrayed my boyfreind, and you said to give him some time away to himself. what happens if he doesnt want to be with me, am i a bad person and what should i do just let him go? what am i going to do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2003
In reply to: zaina1984
Thu, 12-11-2003 - 8:38am
If your bf doesn't want to be with you, then that's his choice and you have to live with it, no matter how hard it is to take.

And no, you are not a "bad person". You are a person who has made a mistake, not unlike any other human being. The key is to learn from your mistake and not to make the same one again. We live, we learn, we grow. Hugs, and good luck in the future.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2003
In reply to: zaina1984
Thu, 12-11-2003 - 10:10am

if that is his choice, then you need to accept it.Know that is doent make you a bad person, just not the person he wants to be with.


Not everything and everyone are supposed to be together forever, but take what you had as a learning experience to grow with.


Good luck,