What is my problem lately!?
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| Thu, 12-11-2003 - 11:28am |
My problem is that all of a sudden I have become obsessed with finding out information about his ex-girlfriends from college, high school and his little flings before me. He's never lied to me and every time I ask about them he's more than willing to answer questions in conversation. It's just during the day I do little searches for their names and try to find out where they are and what they've been up to, their married names, etc. I probably know more about them than he does at this point. I don't know what my problem is and I can't believe I'm being like this. I have always been the girlfriend that drives him to the airport to take trips with his friends and lets him call me first when he's away. I even point out good looking women to him. For crying out loud, I would close out of the page if he left his email box open on the computer screen! It's not as if I suspect he's cheating. I know where he is every second of the day, because he calls, and we're both out of our element here and know very few people. It's scaring me that I have turned into this and I am so ashamed to admit to doing this. HELP ME PLEASE! HAS ANYONE ELSE DONE ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE?

You feel more out of control in your new space and maybe a little nervous that you made this drastic change for him and you want to be sure that it is worth it.
Maybe you should concentrate on making new friends rather than digging up old ones.
Carrie