What's wrong with me?!
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What's wrong with me?!
| Thu, 12-11-2003 - 11:36pm |
My boyfriend and I have been fighting and arguing a lot lately. In the end, I always feel like I'm the one who messed up and I strive to make him get over it. I admit that sometimes I try to control him but I am just afraid of losing him. I realize I need to get a grip and stop trying to control but at the same time, I say things in the heat of a discussion that I shouldn't. I don't realize I say the wrong things until it's too late and he's already mad at me. What can I do to help this situation? I feel like there is something wrong with me. I love my boyfriend a lot but I can't take fighting over stupid things that don't really matter. Please advise!!!!!!!

If you recognize you have the tendency to be controlling and overreact, you need to work on that first.
Also, always pick a right time to talk about things that make you guys mad. Don't wait till it happened and argue about it.
Hope I am of some help. If not, sorry.
Melly.