what do i do???
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what do i do???
| Fri, 12-12-2003 - 1:03am |
my fiance and i just had our son six month ago and it seems ever since he was born my guy has become interested in strip clubs. we fight every time he goes and i tell him how it makes me feel but he keeps going. to me, that's a form of cheating. really, why does he need to go see other; skinny women dance naked infront of him? it really hurts but he doesn't seem to care. is this normal or should i be worried? it makes me feel like he wants something better than me; like he's going to leave me cause he sees there's sexier, better looking women out there. what do i do, let it go (which would be really hard) or keep bugging him? help!!!!

I know that right now, this may not make you feel any better about the situation, but those places have so many bouncers, that you cant even breathe on those girls without getting roughed up by one of them. Not that it excuses him blatenley overlooking your concerns.
You both are going through a major transition perios in your life, and for whatever reason, he is choosing to deal with it in his own way, which happens to be makeing you feel degraded. My suggestion would to sit him down and calmly tell him how you feel, but be prepared with other ways you guys can enjoy each others company.
Good luck, and congratulations on your new arrival.
Hope I am of some help. Btw, most strip clubs don't really have great looking women. Unless he is going a very expensive club.
Melly.
That is my advise. Stop fussing about it and go with him...who gives a hoot that they are skinny and sexy, who does he come home to huh???
Good luck!