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| Sat, 12-13-2003 - 5:49pm |
The other thing is... We hung out alot, from every day to every other day or a few times a week, throughout the whole 5 months we've been 'together.' The thing is... all these times I was the one that would drive to his house. We live about 20-30 minutes apart, he lives in town, I live out in the stix, where I'm 10-15 minutes away from anything. At first this was okay with me because I was working 10 minutes away from his house. Well, I'm not working there anymore and I'm going to school 4 hours at night. And we hardly see each other now because he refuses to 'drive all the way' out to my house. I have asked him many times if he would want to come hang out and every time he says he just wants to stay home. It's kind of starting to piss me off because I feel like we would never hang out if it wasn't for me ALWAYS driving out to his house, and it just makes me feel like this is how little he cares about seeing me when it really comes down to it. I just don't know what to do, because I know I can't always drop everything and do what he says.
Don't get me wrong there are a lot of things I love about him, but sometimes I just don't feel like I really do mean anything to him. Actions speak louder than words, right? What do you guys think?

Sweetie, I agree that one of you is "stupid and selfish"...but it's not YOU!
He wants the benefits of being in a relationship without the obligations.
sweetie - he is controlling the *relationship* - every single aspect of this *relationship* and YOU are letting him. its THAT simple. if YOU are not happy with what's going on ---- then you need to stop. look at what is going on here -