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what sholud i do
| Sat, 12-13-2003 - 6:46pm |
hello buddies
am a new member i joinned after i read some of the disscussionds and i feel you will be able to help me too. i met my husband in the university 1993 he is my first love, when he found out i was a virgine at 23 he asked me to wait for him as per marriage. we got married last year jan.and i came to join him here in spain after a year of our marriage. i am anemic and it has dammage my left hip ball and socket joint since i came it has been one problem or the other am even contempating divorce.
he feels i don't respect him, he dosen't help me atall becos he is the only one working, he dosen't want me to keep friends he put word in my mouth when iphone home or anybody infact he interupts my calls telling me to round up or shout on me.
he is always saying that i don't respect him last week saturday he beat me for the fifth time since i came to join him. i had to go to a neigbor to give me money to phone the police at a boot, because he locked me out. it was atthe boot he later came to plead with me not to call the police since then i had peace but today again he has started it again today byut he did not touch me.
i am tied i don't know what to do i have no savings of my own
don't get me wrong when he wants to be nice he will be the best man on earth, he goes shpping for us, takes my to the hospital buys all the things i need including sanitary towels but my problem with him is that he is too violent and nags too much
help me please b4 i have hypertension
am a new member i joinned after i read some of the disscussionds and i feel you will be able to help me too. i met my husband in the university 1993 he is my first love, when he found out i was a virgine at 23 he asked me to wait for him as per marriage. we got married last year jan.and i came to join him here in spain after a year of our marriage. i am anemic and it has dammage my left hip ball and socket joint since i came it has been one problem or the other am even contempating divorce.
he feels i don't respect him, he dosen't help me atall becos he is the only one working, he dosen't want me to keep friends he put word in my mouth when iphone home or anybody infact he interupts my calls telling me to round up or shout on me.
he is always saying that i don't respect him last week saturday he beat me for the fifth time since i came to join him. i had to go to a neigbor to give me money to phone the police at a boot, because he locked me out. it was atthe boot he later came to plead with me not to call the police since then i had peace but today again he has started it again today byut he did not touch me.
i am tied i don't know what to do i have no savings of my own
don't get me wrong when he wants to be nice he will be the best man on earth, he goes shpping for us, takes my to the hospital buys all the things i need including sanitary towels but my problem with him is that he is too violent and nags too much
help me please b4 i have hypertension

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rldomesting
http://pages.ivillage.com/cl-mizlizzy/recognizinganddealingwithdomesticabuse/
http://www.womenslaw.org/
i have moved out of his house with the backings of the domestic abuse unit. he paid for new place for me with and a monthly pay of 500. i am sure i will move on now no looking back
Sherri