why doesn't he call back?
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why doesn't he call back?
| Sat, 12-13-2003 - 7:50pm |
why would a guy not call a girl back? i met this guy a couple weeks back and i am realizing that he may be a bit sensitive but i am not sure. he seems a bit gunshy due to bad relationships in the past. anyways, i called him one night after his attempts of trying to call me and we talked pleasantly. my cell phone died on me two times during our converstion. he called back the first time it died and i called back the second time. when i called back i got his voicemail so, i left a message saying sorry about the phone situation. i called back a few minutes later thinking maybe he was trying to call me back but my phone was not working and this time i got his voicemail again. i think he turned off his cell phone. i left a message saying sorry again and left him an alternate phone number where he can reach me if he still wanted to talk. he never called back. that was four days ago. did i offend him? did he not want to talk to me in the first place and was just being nice?

I am not sure.
If you know his e-mail address, why not send an apology for "my crazy phone" and ask him if he'd like to talk, now that your phone is working again (and make sure it IS!)
I would hesitate to call again - that would just bring back bad memories of all that craziness! Is there someplace where you know he hangs out or somewhere that you can cross paths? I'd think that would be a good idea. But you don't want to make him think you're stalking him!
Other than that, give him some time and see if he's interested enough to try to contact you.