Long distance dilemma
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Long distance dilemma
| Sun, 12-14-2003 - 4:28pm |
Last year i was happily coupled up with my first love of 5years. Things changed when he decided to move abroad to do his masters. This issue put a huge strain on the relationship and he refused to talk about wat the future would hold for both of us. Regretfully i ended up kissing another guy while on holiday and we decided to take time apart and reassess wat we both wanted. After he left he also kissed another girl while studying for his masters but nothing came out of it. For the past three months we have tried to keep in contact and talk about a reconciliation, however he told me it could only work if i leave everything and my family and go and live with him. At the moment i feel my love for him is numb because i have to give up so much to be with him and im not sure if the relationship is strong enough for such a serious move. We are both young (22) but that is not a factor in my decision. We have not been able to communicate very easily and it can get frustrating and most of the times we end up arguing on the phone. He is coming back for the holidays and we have decided to discuss whether i should move up with him or not, should we both feel confident to make up. Please help as i cant take anymore of this sadness in my life...

Hi
I don't think just because you kissed another guy and he kissed another girl, you have to end it.