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Man Trouble
| Mon, 12-15-2003 - 7:57am |
Hi all. I have a problem. My bf and I have been in a relationship for 2 months and have know each other for about 3 months. The other day I got upset with him. I told him what upset me. It was that basically I felt like I came in second. Like I wasn't #1. He was over by my house and hardly paid any attention to me. He apologized for it and I forgave him and I thought we were back on track. He told me at the time that he feels really bad that I felt the way I felt(the lack of attention). We went out last night and he was reallly quiet which is highly unusual for him. I think something is wrong but i haven't had the chance to talk to him about it. Also he is going home for Christmas in 5 days and is spending 4 weeks away. I want to get this mess cleaned up before he leaves. Am I overreacting? I just need to know. I love him alot and I really like how things have been going between us. I don't want to hurt our future in any way.

Well, you need to talk to him. If he is continusly making you feel like this, then obviously it needs to be addressed.before you go making a huge deal out of it, check your feelings, make sure your not going thru pms, or there really is something else that is bothering you.Then, talk to him.Tell him, from your heart, how he makes you feel.Make sure that you give him ideas on what he can do to better the situation.
remeber, ask him if there is anything that he feels isnt going right, and make sure you listen.This isnt about you, relationships area two way street.
Good luck,