Engaged but relationship is in danger
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Engaged but relationship is in danger
| Mon, 12-15-2003 - 9:45am |
I am engaged to a wonderful man, but recently we have been fighting because of my mood swings, I was gang raped by 5 men when I was 18 (now 42) and have never been able to trust or have self esteem since then. This has caused problems in all the relationships I have been in, now I have found the man of my dreams and my problems from my rape are causing him to want to run. I have vowed to turn myself around but don't know how to stop the non trusting, and mood swing problems that I have, I get angry at the least little thing, I do suffer from depression which he doesn't understand despite my trying to help him understand what I am going thru. He says he can't take my mood swings anymore and feels like he doesnt' want to come home anymore for fear of how I will be acting when he gets home. Please help me. I am desparate and need help A.S.A.P. I don't want to lose him , he is the love of my life and a wonderful man. HELP!

Did you ever go to therapy to deal with this? SOmetimes we can't turn ourselves around without the help of a third party.
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