Is It Over?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2003
Is It Over?
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 1:29pm
I've been seeing someone for a few months and it became serious rather fast. We do live an hour apart but still see each other twice a week. We had been friends before and when I finally decided to date him, he would call and email every day, make lans for us way in advance and be very attentive. In the past couple of weeks he has seemed very distant and doesn't call as much or seem to make an effort to keep this going. He keeps telling me he is super stressed with work and I know he has been working fourteen hour days every day of the week. I wasn't too worried about his withdrawing having anything to do with me but when I told him I missed him yesterday he didn't say anything back which is so unlike him. I am under a lot of stress right now as well with work and other things but this is weighing heavily on my mind. I just don't know if I should back off or ask him what is going on. I've been offered a chance to move to where he is but I don't know if I should tell him now since he has been so distant. Any input? Thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: beachykeen9
Mon, 12-15-2003 - 1:34pm
I think you should give him some time to deal with the stress and let him miss you. If you are the one doing all the calling, emailing, then stop for awhile and see what happens.


Carrie