i hurt his ego unintentionally
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| Thu, 12-18-2003 - 1:26pm |
last weekend in bed, he says that i wanted to go again (true). he says he then told me "that's it". he says next i said "that's it? that's pitiful."
we had been out beforehand and had a few drinks but never, under any circumstances would i refer to this man as pitiful. i do, quite frequently, refer to my dog as pitiful and he's heard me say it on many occassions. our pattern is to go to bed, have sex, talk then go to sleep. while talking my dog is usually running around on the floor whining or looking sad because he wants on the bed. i think i said "that's it?" poutingly but not meanly, then saw or heard my dog and referred to him as pitiful.
my SO is very sensitive sometimes and i would never even joke about him like that. how can i get him to see that i didn't mean the remark towards him??

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I will take your advice and talk to him. As soon as he will agree to sit down and listen!