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I feel guilty
| Fri, 12-19-2003 - 10:29am |
My boyfriend has been sick with the flu for the past week and on Tuesday he didn't call me once. I called him at 10pm to see how he was doing and he did sound terrible. I was upset taht he didn't call me. I know it sounds selfish but if I was sick I would definitely want to at least hear his voice. I told him on Wednesday I was upset that I didn't talk to him and he got so angry with me. He was saying that he slept the whole day and felt like crap. He said he didn't talk to anyone that day and I said I didn't think i was just anyone. Basically he got angry at me for getting upset. Now I feel guilty. How do I make this better?
Thank you for any advice.

I would apologize profusley to him for overreaccting and then make it a point to pick your battles more wisley.No one wants to be accussed of not caring when they are sick or anyother time for that matter, so think before you spout accusations at someone you care deeply for.
What makes you insecure to feel like this?Is is something that happens alot? If it is, you need to get at the root of whats causing these feelings, because it could eventually ruin what you have with him.
B.J.
Mommy to Samantha Renee 12/11/04