Is dis guy cheating?or r we just friends

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Registered: 12-20-2003
Is dis guy cheating?or r we just friends
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Sat, 12-20-2003 - 7:54pm
Ok..im confused..need help - heres whats been going on..

Theres this guy i met through a friend..we watched a movie..and

i told him straight up, we're just friends. However, hes been leading me on..

for ex: he still asks me out on a movie but just as a friend..then after a couple of days

i find out he has a girlfriend..ok what the hell?? he has been going out with this girl even before we met..so why didn't he tell me? i talked to his friends too, one of his friends asked me if anything was going on between me and this guy..i said no i guess not but if his friend knew then why didn't he tell me that this guy has a girl?

i dun understand whats going on..is this cheating?? or just friendship??

What do i do now?????? HELLLLLLLLPPPPPPPP
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 1:50pm
it's not cheating, but i'd tell you to keep this guy in the friend's zone since he has a girlfriend. don't even be interested.

you don't want someone else's boyfriend, no matter how it came about.

you two are friends, keep it that way and don't let it be misunderstood by anyone that you are just friends -- unless you like drama and lots of it.

take care

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Registered: 12-20-2003
Sun, 12-21-2003 - 2:00pm
This sounds pretty shady to me. If he had a girlfriend, he should have been upfront with you about that. It seems like he was trying to hide it. I wonder, does his girlfriend know that he has a "friend" who he is watching movies with? I'm sure if you've never heard of her, it's likely that she's never heard of you.