Another ex question

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Registered: 07-11-2003
Another ex question
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Tue, 12-23-2003 - 8:28am
I find myself constantly worrying about my boyfriend. His ex is out of the picture, she's in another city, far away and they never communicate but on more than one occassion he has called me by her name, not during sex but just sometimes throughout the day. Granted, our names are very similar but this worries me. He always references things they did when they were together and just today I found a file on his computer named after her. I tried to open it to see what it contained but it was password protected. Should I be worried about this or am I being paranoid over nothing? I just hate the idea of being in a relationship with someone I care so deeply about and not having the same kind of love in return.
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Registered: 09-05-2003
Tue, 12-23-2003 - 8:54am

I wouldn't let the fact that he calls you her name bother you.