should i be in another relationship

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2003
should i be in another relationship
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Sun, 12-28-2003 - 6:33pm
OK.... well i just broke up with my boyfriend after 10 months the day after thanksgiving sayin that he needed to focus more on school and stuff like that because it was a long distance relationship and everything....Pretty much after that i was DEVASTATED with everything and hurt... After that i told myself that i was done with relationships for a long long time... because i couldnt go through the devastation with them anymore for now.. BUT THIS WEEKEND I WENT HOME TO SEE MY FAMILY AND EVERYTHING AND THEN I SAW ONE OF MY FRIENDS THAT I HADNT SEEN IN ALONG TIME... ANYWAYS HE HAD A HOUSE PARTY AND DURING THAT TIME WE STARTED TO HAVE A REAL GOOD CONVERSATION AND EVERYTHING AND THEN...WE KISSED AND THATS ALL THERE WAS.... AND LATER ON THAT NIGHT ALL I DID WAS THINK ABOUT HIM 24-7...SO HE CALLED AND HE WANTS LIKE A RELATIONSHIP AND ALTHOUGH I REALLY LIKE HIM IM SCARED TO TRY ANYTHING NEW WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE ALL THE RELATIONSHIPS IVE BEEN IN IT ALWAYS ENDED UP IN A HEARTBREAK AND I KNOW THAT IF I DO PURSUE ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE ELSE IM GONNA BE SCARED...CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE BECAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Sun, 12-28-2003 - 8:42pm
You shouldn't be in a relationship right now and you know that- especially with someone who wants a relationship after one night of kissing.