im a cheat but i want a second chance

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
im a cheat but i want a second chance
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Sun, 12-28-2003 - 8:00pm
i am such a ****** - i get bored doing uni work so i go to chat lines and flirt with other women, swapping pics with them and asking for no strings attached fun, telling them they look nice as i call them baby. this has been going on for three years but the problem is for the same time i have been falling in love with my girlfriend. the problem is that she accessed my email address and found these emails. she is heart broken, and think that the reltaionship has been a lie and i have been sleeping around. she cant believe what i did and says that this is the worst thing i could have done and i am a loser and she was out of my league. the only reason i did this was out of boredom but she doesnt believe that and i guess no one that is reading this would, as i don't. she has ripped up all my cards and got rid of everything i got for her. she says i screwed with her mind telling her that i loved her whilst doing this behind, when i was suppoed 'to be working at university'. she is everything to me but she doesnt want to know - i am 25 and she is 23 and we live 4 hours away from each other. i rather die than loose her and i know theres no chance that she will forgive me. i am such a **** - is there anyway i can make this situation right?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 12-29-2003 - 1:11am
"i am such a **** - is there anyway i can make this situation right?"

ask her. if she says no, leave her alone.


iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Sun, 01-04-2004 - 11:23am
dont people change?

if you were her u wouldnt give me another chance?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2003
Sun, 01-04-2004 - 11:35am
'the only reason i did this was out of boredom'

If you are bored then you ask for projects at work, you get a hobby, you volunteer, you read. You don't flirt with others for 3 years.

It sounds like she has made up her mind.